ever have one of those days? i have been having a string of them recently. nothing seems to go quite right. i went out thursday morning to do a bit of clothes shopping. i don’t have much i can actually fit into right now, so i just wanted to pick up a few things. nothing fit, i had a hard time finding clothes, only found one pair of pants i could fit into. nothing sucker punches your self body image harder than clothes shopping. i used to enjoy it, in fact i enjoyed it a bit too much. i wanted to get my hair colored, for a change, the hairdresser is on vacation this week, and booked up all of next. i wanted some new eyeshadow, fall colors. found nothing i liked. i drove in circles, and got precious little accomplished.
friday i packed up and headed out the door to michigan for the weekend to see my friend mary. i haven’t seen her in a very long time and it’s been three or for years since i have been up to her part of michigan for a visit. i called the local radio station to request a song, they said they would play it for me. i listened as long as i could until i got out of range, if they did play it, i missed it. for pete’s sake already.
i called mary once i got into town and we headed out for a day of shopping and lunch. we stopped at a restaurant on the lake by the marina, and then onto artisan knitworks, everything is hand dyed, hand spun, hand painted, and just drop dead gorgeous. i picked up two skeins of sock yarn, the colors are a bit shocking i know. you can find their shop at artisan knit works
this is layla

and this is midnight. each bundle is a pair of socks.

we drove through downtown detroit to get to our destination, detroit is a very depressed and filthy city. i did not feel safe at all, it was like being in washington d.c. after dark, only it was the middle of the day. we went to a casino for a few hours. i have to admit this is so not my thing. i see no enjoyment in it and when we finally left i reeked of cigarette smoke. it was in my hair and my clothes, i couldn’t wait to get back to my room and shower. i had to air out my clothes before packing them, i was afraid everything in my suitcase would end up smelling like smoke. give me nyc any day, you can keep detroit.
saturday i had a leisurely morning, i get a bit too fond of those. the bed at the double tree hotel was so plush and inviting. you just sank into the pillows and the sheets were so soft. the bed just firm enough. if i could’ve fit the entire thing into my purse and carried it out the door i would’ve. it makes it hard to get out of bed, but finally i was on my way to pick up mary. we headed out to a few more yarn stores, and then met up with rita for lunch. we had high tea at the sweet afton tea room, you can find them here. sweet afton tea room
it was one of the better high teas i have had. rita had baby emmet with her, the owners of the shop couldn’t get enough of him. afterward we hung around town and did some shopping. plymouth is a great little town for a girls day out, full of quaint little shops and restaurants. we went into a store called sideways and i found some cherry chai tea latte mix i can’t wait to try. there was another tea shop we wanted to go to, but missed them by an hour, maybe next time. we stopped at the bead store and i found some green beads to knit with. they were a bit of an extravagance, but i fell in love with the colors so i splurged. i had actually managed to keep the yarn purchases down to three skeins of yarn, so i felt a little better about splurging on the beads. after a day of shopping we met back at the hotel and hung out. rita gave us manicures and we watched movies while i tried to stay awake.
sunday morning rolls around and it’s time to head home. i actually made rather good time since it was sunday morning there wasn’t much traffic out. i was over the michigan/ohio state line in under an hour and home just shortly after noon. one thing they have in detroit you can’t find in toronto (at least i didn’t, although i got overly excited at the concept) giant cupcakes.

a few differences between ohio and michigan, people park between their front yards and the street. it just looks weird. (front yard, sidewalk, your car, street) you get a discount on gas if you pay cash. they have these crazy left turns, almost shaped like a cabling hook. a red flashing light means you can turn left once traffic is clear. you can legally go seventy miles an hour (you’ll passed like you are parked, but you can legally go seventy) there are a lot of really loud cars out on the road. just as i crossed the state line coming home, this car with an unreasonably loud muffler went roaring by (michigna plates) and i sighed and thought we’re in ohio now. here you’ll get a ticket for that. it’s nice to be home.